Never ask "Why me?"

Most people ask this question time and again without realizing that the answer lies within themselves.
When you are faced with an impossible task or if anything that causes you deep pain - physically or most probably emotionally ; that's when you find yourself asking "Why me?"! But does that give us a solution? No!
The best of us go through this phase, but few realize that instead of dwelling on the question, we have to make a start towards understanding the answer. Because that's where you will find the solution to your problem.
I know it maybe hard sometimes to come close to grasping the answer, but that's where you will realize the true strength of your character, which keeps propelling you towards the solution without allowing you to give up. Also, having the support of family, friends and loved ones or just someone with a sympathetic ear and strong words of confidence, will be sure to get you out of your rut!!! And also remember, that there are those out there who may be in a more pathetic condition than you are in, and that doesn't let them stop from living their life, so why should you?

So all i am saying is that, when faced with impossible situations, don't just give up, but make it a test of your true potential as a human being and keep positive in the face of adversities and tackle it with a smile. Only then you will find the true solution to all your problems in life. Keeping faith and having a smile on your face, helps incredibly.

And mind you, i am not telling you to do this all alone. Having your loved ones around you and especially those who themselves remain positive and egg you on,are the ones who will see to it that you reach your solution!!
So stop asking "why me?" and instead, ask yourself "how best do tackle this - head on or systematically?" Don't loose hope ever, because hope is the only ray of light that will guide you to your goal!!
Stay positive and stop dwelling in your problems!!! Take my word for it, as this is what truly helped me in coping with a recent incident in my life, that threatened to shatter my very existence!!!
Hope, Positivity and Loving people around you are the true catalysts for finding a solution to life's various hurdles!!